Tuesday, 8 July 2008

Great comment

I've had a great comment:

A tramp who wanted to fuck a tramp... what a story.

You're a fucking ugly cunt, I've seen you around.

Really? Where?

I can't stand your pathetic blog, you cannot write for shit

Ok, you're entitled to your own opinion n all, but in real life I am a professional writer.

and you come off as an angry vicious cunt.

What, for not accepting patriarchal oppression like a good girl? I have a personality, I'm sorry if that offends you. Actually, no I'm not.

Any wonder the only people that want to fuck you are homeless!

Actually, lots of non-homeless people have recently expressed a desire to fuck me. Some of them were dickwads, most of them were nice guys who I didn't happen to fancy, and one of them was utterly wonderful. And much as it is nice to be considered fuckable, I don't really agree that my worth is defined by it.

Shut your fucking mouth... better yet stick a tramp's cock in it and do what you were born to do you fat slut.

Ooooh, you used the F-word, I'm scared!

You really are a piece of work there sweet tits. I wouldn't fuck you with a ten foot pole.

That's good, I'm not sure I want to be fucked with a ten foot pole.

There are far less crazy skanks out there can take cock and not complain.

Au contraire, I very much like cocks when they're attached to men who I find attractive. And if I were a lesbian, I'd have nothing to do with cocks at all, which is something you really shouldn't have a problem with.

You are absolutely fucking fucked.

Whatever you're going to label me now you slimy fish smelling cunt... remember... I have really seen you around... really... so fucking think. Really think. You cunt.

So...you're allowed to call me a "slimy fish smelling cunt" but I'm not allowed to say anything back to you because you've "seen me around"? Is that a threat? What are you going to do? Fuck me with that ten foot pole of yours? I don't think you have seen me around. Nobody I know would talk to anyone like that even on the internet, and although it's entirely conceivable that someone might find me ugly, I'm definitely not fat. And if you really are so big and clever and not scared of a little cunt like me, why don't you tell me who you are?

I don't know anything about this person. They might not even be a genuine misogynist - it could be someone who for some reason has something personal against me. All I can say about them is that they want me to feel hurt by this, and so I think it's worth examining how they have gone about it, and the material used to achieve their aims.

  • "You're ugly" is considered a terrible insult
  • "You're fat" is considered a terrible insult
  • "I don't want to fuck you" is considered a terrible insult
  • "You suck cock" is considered a terrible insult
  • "You can't take cock" is considered a terrible insult

    These really are the classic one-size-fits-all female insults. Want to make a woman feel bad about herself? Tell her she's ugly and fat. Want to make her feel humiliated? Attack her sexuality. It's simple really. We live in a society that places a disproportionately massive amount of importance on a woman's appearance, her sexual availability and her chastity (all that virgin/whore schtick, we really can't win however we behave, so just fuck who you want, sisters) and so if you want to insult a woman, just pick on those things and you're sure to hit the target. If anyone ever says anything like this to you, it's worth bearing all this in mind. Insults like this are very unlikely to be an accurate reflection of your personal qualities.

    Strangely enough, if this man doesn't want to fuck me, I'm quite happy with that. I sure as hell don't want to fuck him either.

    Jules said...

    Hmmm. Obviously one of those men that assume that women need a man's approval to feel good, and that his pathetic attempts at insulting you are going to make you cry.

    If he'd really "seen you around" he'd know that (a) you're not fat, and (b) you're not ugly. Moreover, if he'd bothered to read any other parts of your blog, he'd also know that you're a very good writer.

    What an oxygen-thief.

    Snr. Smooth said...

    Oh my word! What a ignorant, rude, self important piece of crap!!!! Here's hoping I don't meet him around town :O I was wondering if you've had the misfortune to watch "Snog, Marry, Avoid" You should give it a watch, I'd love to hear your take on it!

    Tom said...

    Hmmm indeed. One's tempted to say that this is merely his way of saying "I really fancy you"... the comments, though obviously aimed at attacking what he perceives to be the essence of femininity (thinness, ability to 'take cock' etc), are very similar to the sort of homophobic comments easily available for viewing on plenty of sites, which always make one wonder whether the author has spent rather too much time thinking about the act they claim to despise.

    Needless to say, this fellow's a liar, a creep and obviously has serious personality shortcomings (and probably some sort of psychiatric illness).

    Renata said...

    Just stopped to give you my support. It's good to know that you can handle these types of insults.
    I wished everybody could face them like that and not be selfconscious because some ignorant prick is trying to impose his insecurities on random female feminist bloggers.
    Congratulations from a fan in Brazil. Keep up the good blogging.

    Philip said...

    Crazy! It seems like an attention seeker who stumbled across your blog and got mad at something you wrote ... or it's that tramp you 'rejected' in the street. Would explain the "seen you around" bit anyway.

    Elaine Vigneault said...

    I'm sorry someone sent that to you. People are mean. and stupid.